A World of Experiences.
Curated for Men in Midlife.
We’ve sought out the facilitators, tested the methods, and distilled the best. The hard-to-find, the rarely-taught, the truly transformative—all in one place. Vetted. Trusted. Delivered in a single immersive arc.
Our Approach:
More Life per Life
Balancing polarity is a central theme in many ancient practices including Taoism’s yin and yang and Hatha Yoga. Mirroring these concepts, the science behind self-regulation plays a similar role. For more information about the different modalities on offer and why we chose them, click here.
Our Approach:
More Life per Life
Balancing polarity is a central theme in many ancient practices including Taoism’s yin and yang and Hatha Yoga. Mirroring these concepts, the science behind self-regulation plays a similar role. For more information about the different modalities on offer and why we chose them, click here.
Forged for Men
Men often carry the weight of stoicism and individualism, making it hard to seek support. Most retreats are built with women in mind, but men grow best through structure, shared challenge, and direct experience. Borderlands is designed for the way men truly thrive.
Midlife connection
Designed for men in midlife transition, our retreats foster deep connections with those facing similar life shifts. Growth happens best in community, not isolation—this is where shared experience meets real transformation.
Push, Pause, Play
The nervous system only takes real risks when it feels safe. At Borderlands, we create the conditions for an adventurous, sustainable life—push past limits, pause to regulate, play to integrate. The deeper your roots, the higher you can grow.
Novel Experiences, New Neural Pathways
Growth happens at the edge of the known. At Borderlands, we craft immersive, mind-expanding experiences that break routine, rewire perception, and create lasting shifts. The unfamiliar isn’t just where transformation begins—it’s where new versions of yourself emerge.
Elemental Intelligence
On land, in water, under the sky—let nature strip away what no longer belongs. Here, in direct contact with the wild, you drop your masks and shed your disguises to reconnect with the instincts dulled by modern life. What remains is something real—your unfiltered, primal intelligence, fully awake.
Ease Over Effort
True power isn’t forced—it’s fluid. At Borderlands, we train men to move with presence, precision, and ease, unlocking strength without struggle. When mind, heart, and gut align, decisions come naturally, movement flows effortlessly, and instinct sharpens. Less friction, more power. Less tension, more impact.
Retreats Come in 2 Sizes
Get Your Mojo Rising
For the man running hard but running low. A 72-hour surge to reignite drive, focus, and vitality—fast, sharp, and high-impact.
New Game+
For the man in transition—career, relationships, identity. A deep dive to reset, gain clarity, and step into your next chapter with confidence.