Borderlands | Retreats for men navigating a midlife crisis

Explore Our Men's Retreat Midlife is not a crisis. It is a calling.
Step in. Wake up. Spring forward.

Explore. Embark. Embody.
Experiences that shake the dust off.
Built for men 40-55.

Explore Our Men's Retreat
Ancient paths. Modern methods.
No dogma. Just efficacy. And joy.
Explore Our Men's Retreat

Father. Son. Partner.
Boss. Employee.

Feeling overwhelmed by the many hats you wear? Take a moment for self-reflection. Do your roles align with your core values and unique gifts? Drop your masks. Discover how to forge deeper, more genuine connections with yourself, others, and the world around you.

Venture into Borderlands. An alchemical journey that aligns the head, heart, and gut. Upgrade your OS, become antifragile, find flow.

Midlife bridges past and future into a transformative now. Channel the potential inherent in this pivotal moment. Reignite your adventurous spirit. Explore the rugged textures and unexplored territories of self.

Dive deeper with our podcast Men Who Pause.

Immersive, Intimate, Personalised

Limited to just 8 men

Balance the dynamic yang of martial arts with the nurturing yin of somatics, guided by expert facilitators who tailor the journey to your unique needs. Cultivate visceral self-awareness. Build emotional intelligence.

Ground yourself in nature. Rediscover play. Enjoy warm, thoughtful hospitality at a stunning tropical modern estate—a secluded sanctuary on a tranquil backwater island. The perfect space to step beyond the familiar.

What You Will Experience

Expand Your Edge
Engage in novel experiences that fire new neural pathways.

Embodied Challenge

Move beyond routine with physical and mental challenges designed for growth.

Nature Connection
Immerse in elemental outdoor experiences.

Integrated Awareness
Engage your thinking, feeling, and doing through dynamic mind-body practices.

Personal Insights

Gain depth through reflective workshops.

Community Bonds

Forge connections in a diverse group.

Gourmet Local Food

Savour nutrient rich, locally sourced cuisine.

Restorative Spaces

Relax in luxurious, thoughtful environments.

Secure Environment
Trust in a safe space for deeper exploration.