Borderlands is the culmination of lived experience combined with primary and secondary research. If you have an inclination for anthropology (like us!), are one of the rare people who still like to read and/or just want more information before deciding if this community is for you, this is the place.
What Are Men Really Going Through in Midlife? Learnings From 300+ Conversations
Over the last year, 560 men have reached out to Borderlands. We’ve spoken with more than 300 — sometimes for hours, sometimes for minutes that felt like years. These weren’t
Practice Is a Field for Truth, Not Success: A Midlife Path to Aliveness
In a culture that measures worth through achievement and social standing, discomfort is treated as failure and aging as decline. But what if practice isn’t about becoming more successful, younger,
Urdhva Retas & Second Puberty: Hidden Power of Midlife
In Western culture, puberty is often seen as a single, chaotic transition—a storm that transforms a child into an adult. Once it’s over, adulthood is expected to be a steady
Why Join Our Men’s Retreat?
Women seem to more easily get how vulnerability can be a sign of strength. Men, hiding behind stoicism and individualism, have a hard time even acknowledging their need for support
Head.Heart.Guts: A More Potent Way of Being
We’ve learnt that true potency in life arises from the harmonious alignment of the head, heart, and gut. This alignment isn’t just a lofty ideal; it’s a practical approach to
The Borderlands Method: More Life per Life
At Borderlands, our retreat is a synergistic blend of ancient wisdom, modern science, and a dash of playful experimentation. We’ve crafted a program that dives deep into the body, mind,