Urdhva Retas and Midlife
In Western culture, puberty is often seen as a single, chaotic transition—a storm that transforms a child into an adult. Once it’s over, adulthood is expected to be a steady
We’ve learnt that true potency in life arises from the harmonious alignment of the head, heart, and gut. This alignment isn’t just a lofty ideal; it’s a practical approach to living with ease and effectiveness, especially as we navigate the challenges of midlife. As our youthful energy wanes, the synergy of our mental, emotional, and physical faculties can become a source of exponential power.
When we speak of aligning head, heart, and gut, we’re talking about bringing our thoughts, feelings, and actions into harmony. This alignment allows us to act with clarity, integrity, and courage, making our lives more effective and fulfilling. The concept is rooted in various traditions and philosophies, each offering insights into how we can achieve this balance.
At our retreats, every module and experience is designed to engage and align these centres. Read further if you’re interested in the teachings and thinkers who have influenced us in this regard.
In Daoism, the Three Dantians are energy centres that align with the heavens above, the earth below, and the heart, which connects us to all life. The upper Dantian (head) is associated with spiritual insight, the middle Dantian (heart) with emotional wisdom, and the lower Dantian (gut) with physical vitality. Harmonising these centres allows us to live in alignment with the natural order and our true selves.
G.I. Gurdjieff, in his Fourth Way teachings drawn from sufism, emphasised the importance of integrating our three centres: thinking, feeling, and doing. He argued that most people are dominated by one centre, leading to imbalanced actions and reactions. By learning to operate from at least two centres simultaneously, if not all three, we can achieve a more harmonious and potent way of being.
In the Eastern tradition of chakra systems, the seven chakras can be grouped into head (Ajna and Sahasrara), heart (Anahata), and gut (Manipura, Svadhisthana, and Muladhara) centres. This grouping emphasises the importance of balancing intellectual, emotional, and physical energies to achieve holistic well-being.
Knowing yourself is the first step towards alignment. At Borderlands we will help participants discover which centre they tend to default to:
Understanding your default centre allows you to consciously engage the other centres, fostering a more balanced and effective approach to life.
Aligning head, heart, and gut transforms how we navigate life’s challenges and opportunities. When these centres are not at odds but work in concert, their power becomes exponential. Here’s how this manifests:
In Western culture, puberty is often seen as a single, chaotic transition—a storm that transforms a child into an adult. Once it’s over, adulthood is expected to be a steady
Women seem to more easily get how vulnerability can be a sign of strength. Men, hiding behind stoicism and individualism, have a hard time even acknowledging their need for support
At Borderlands, our retreat is a synergistic blend of ancient wisdom, modern science, and a dash of playful experimentation. We’ve crafted a program that dives deep into the body, mind,